Hello Ladies and gentleman,
I will tell you right from the start, I feel horrible at the moment. My knees are aching something awful. Weird weather has that affect. For those that don't know, I have a neurological disorder. I won't get detailed here. Will any answer any questions at another time.
Does anyone else here deal with face book? (Yes Daisy, I know you do). Being as I am trying to distract myself, getting lost in a stupid game, it is quite annoying that there is no privacy there. Fact of the matter is, I HATE FACE BOOK. What if I want to chat with 1 person or god forbid, waste some time playing a game??? No can do there. Whenever you are on face book, everyone else knows you are there. Seeing you there, people want to chat or add you to apps or some crazy shit. No one seems to understand that you could possibly be busy. Everyone is offended if you dont respond. I know, it is a social network but there is such a thing as TOO BLOODY SOCIAL.
Not to be mean or anti-social, I am not giving out my face book here. I am just curious. Anyone else here have the same kind of troubles? Face book, My Space?
Another Subject, no ranting.....
Things are very SLOWLY progressing. I am gathering yet more info so that I might actually get a passport. Gee, then I get to start battling for my VISA. Total proof I love my Daisy, no one else is worth this much effort.
Sorry for ranting. Peace to all
As always, Love to my beautiful wife Daisy
Davey
Thursday, October 22, 2009
Tuesday, October 13, 2009
A bit more info
As you may have read on Daisy's Blog, She and I recently had a battle of wills. Well a battle of wills and paddles and such. I have to say, Daisy did a fine job telling the tale. I just think I should explain a few things.
First, she was amazingly accurate with the stress thing.
We spend as much time as possible together. Sadly for us "Together" is via phone and computer. No matter how loving and understanding 2 people are, it's not the same. Insecurities creep in, an answer given that is either vague or not completely understood can cause so many problems. Both Daisy and I are really good at handling the situation 9 out of 10 times....That tenth time is usually a lulu.
As the computer and phone are our only means of togetherness, Hanging up and shutting down are really hurtful things to do. 1 or the other gets the point across. If you get mad at your partner and storm out of the room, you are still together and communication is still possible. I am a firm believer that calm rational talk is possible in almost any situation. Sometimes Daisy has a problem with that.
Her behavior on that particular day really hit all the buttons needed to cancel my usual ideas on that calm nonsense... What Daisy did not say, probably out of respect is that when we were together we had a fight. I did something very un-Davey . I lost my temper and spanked her out of complete anger. I spanked her well past tears and I swore I would never do that again. I try not to make many promises therefore I really try hard to keep the ones I do make.
That is why, when my initial spank had no apparent effect, I stopped. My temper was rising and I knew that if I continued I could break her stoic affect but I was not sure that would be enough. Out of love for my wife, I stopped.
Stupidly, I could not tell her that at the moment, guess I saw it as a weakness on my part. So I said exactly what she quoted.
Between then and when we next talked I had time to calm and think. I looked at all our pictures reread some letters and reminded myself that she is my world. Ordinarily I would insert a joke about the Hero rising and taking control of the situation. There was nothing funny about the situation. I know, a punishment spank is a common thing in this world. If we were together, I can handle that. A phone spank is harder. I made up my mind although it hurt me as much as her, just in different ways. TO THE SPANKEES: IT REALLY CAN HURT US AS MUCH. IT IS A MENTAL THING.
When next we spoke I was ready. I know my wife and I know her well. The spank that she got that night may seem cruel to some but it was dealt with love and an even temper. True, it was longer than usual and I very rarely bring out the spoon. It was needed. Sometimes you have to take it past the usual, into new frontiers in order to make a point. MACHO MAN Davey refused to show the tears or how bad it hurt. I was well aware that she has our safeword if I went too far. When I was angry, I forgot all about her having that, though if she had used it, of course I would have honored it.
Yes, I did continue to "top up" her spanks after that. It is very important to maintain a Base....Where her bottom does not require a massive spank in order to feel it.
I love my wife more than I ever thought possible. Other than the separation, our biggest problem is rational VS irrational thought. I can not and will not allow her to become her irrational self.
Hopefully, we will be together soon and this will all be a thing of the past. Until then, I will have to continue to be as strong as I can be.
Alright, now for something completely different. (all honors to Monty python)
LOL...Love our lurkers.
To anyone who reads this and is shy about commenting, please go ahead and say HI. I know, it can be scary making that first move but you'll be surprised how friendly people are. If you have a problem with what you read, constructive criticism is always welcome. Obviously, friendly comments are preferred.
OK...
As always, Much love to my beautiful wife Daisy.
Peace,
Davey
First, she was amazingly accurate with the stress thing.
We spend as much time as possible together. Sadly for us "Together" is via phone and computer. No matter how loving and understanding 2 people are, it's not the same. Insecurities creep in, an answer given that is either vague or not completely understood can cause so many problems. Both Daisy and I are really good at handling the situation 9 out of 10 times....That tenth time is usually a lulu.
As the computer and phone are our only means of togetherness, Hanging up and shutting down are really hurtful things to do. 1 or the other gets the point across. If you get mad at your partner and storm out of the room, you are still together and communication is still possible. I am a firm believer that calm rational talk is possible in almost any situation. Sometimes Daisy has a problem with that.
Her behavior on that particular day really hit all the buttons needed to cancel my usual ideas on that calm nonsense... What Daisy did not say, probably out of respect is that when we were together we had a fight. I did something very un-Davey . I lost my temper and spanked her out of complete anger. I spanked her well past tears and I swore I would never do that again. I try not to make many promises therefore I really try hard to keep the ones I do make.
That is why, when my initial spank had no apparent effect, I stopped. My temper was rising and I knew that if I continued I could break her stoic affect but I was not sure that would be enough. Out of love for my wife, I stopped.
Stupidly, I could not tell her that at the moment, guess I saw it as a weakness on my part. So I said exactly what she quoted.
Between then and when we next talked I had time to calm and think. I looked at all our pictures reread some letters and reminded myself that she is my world. Ordinarily I would insert a joke about the Hero rising and taking control of the situation. There was nothing funny about the situation. I know, a punishment spank is a common thing in this world. If we were together, I can handle that. A phone spank is harder. I made up my mind although it hurt me as much as her, just in different ways. TO THE SPANKEES: IT REALLY CAN HURT US AS MUCH. IT IS A MENTAL THING.
When next we spoke I was ready. I know my wife and I know her well. The spank that she got that night may seem cruel to some but it was dealt with love and an even temper. True, it was longer than usual and I very rarely bring out the spoon. It was needed. Sometimes you have to take it past the usual, into new frontiers in order to make a point. MACHO MAN Davey refused to show the tears or how bad it hurt. I was well aware that she has our safeword if I went too far. When I was angry, I forgot all about her having that, though if she had used it, of course I would have honored it.
Yes, I did continue to "top up" her spanks after that. It is very important to maintain a Base....Where her bottom does not require a massive spank in order to feel it.
I love my wife more than I ever thought possible. Other than the separation, our biggest problem is rational VS irrational thought. I can not and will not allow her to become her irrational self.
Hopefully, we will be together soon and this will all be a thing of the past. Until then, I will have to continue to be as strong as I can be.
Alright, now for something completely different. (all honors to Monty python)
LOL...Love our lurkers.
To anyone who reads this and is shy about commenting, please go ahead and say HI. I know, it can be scary making that first move but you'll be surprised how friendly people are. If you have a problem with what you read, constructive criticism is always welcome. Obviously, friendly comments are preferred.
OK...
As always, Much love to my beautiful wife Daisy.
Peace,
Davey
Monday, October 12, 2009
Just a quickie
HI Folks,
1st I hope all have been well in my absence. Sorry it was so long. Really haven't felt much like writing and I have been busy doing other things.
2nd, I know they were not much but I really hoped those ancient cartoons would draw more interest then they did. LOL Come on, admit it they were cool.
3rd, I am almost positive there will be a new post on here in the next day or so. It will be real not another fill in the blank type thing. I hope there will still be someone left out there to read it.
Peace and happiness, Love to my beautiful wife Daisy.
Davey
1st I hope all have been well in my absence. Sorry it was so long. Really haven't felt much like writing and I have been busy doing other things.
2nd, I know they were not much but I really hoped those ancient cartoons would draw more interest then they did. LOL Come on, admit it they were cool.
3rd, I am almost positive there will be a new post on here in the next day or so. It will be real not another fill in the blank type thing. I hope there will still be someone left out there to read it.
Peace and happiness, Love to my beautiful wife Daisy.
Davey
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