Thursday, April 30, 2009

An interesting card game.

Hello Peoples,
While Daisy and I were on Holiday, she kinda challenged me to expand our methods of spanks. I decided on a special card game. It is a variation of Rummy, the difference is the amount of cards and wild cards. The game is something I learned at work, it is called "Polish Rummy". The addition I made was a bit of a wager. Let me explain a bit more. Daisy was guarantied a spank, win or lose...But losing would be more elaborate. I took a few moments and devised a system. Hearts = Hand, Diamonds = paddle, spades = belt and clubs = spoon. Face value of the cards = the amount of spanks with each.
The idea was if Daisy won, she would receive a spank of her choice. If she lost, she would be dealt 10 cards. and would receive the total. as a fore taste, we played a game of high low. (for those that don't know, 2 players pull a card from the deck before looking, the first chooses high or low.) Daisy lost that. She was dealt her 10 cards and was very lucky. She was dealt 10 very low cards. After that spank session she was feeling confident That the game would be no problem. So we played, with the scoring and weird uses for wild cards, it is a silly but fun game. Lots of laughs and giggles until she lost. As I said,the first set of cards gave her a false sense of security. Something my wife falls prey to quite often. LOL
I dealt the next 10 cards and the results were a bit different. A lot of very high black cards. I don't remember for sure the exact cards but believe me, the numbers were not in her favor. Spoon and belt were used alot more than my hand or paddle. I remember watching the grin on her face fade a bit as she did the math in her head. I admit, I love the feeling I get when I watch her realize she has stepped in it again.
During our holiday, we were very rarely in a position to act completely free. We spent alot of our trip in the home of family and privacy was not easy. This night, we were on our own in a hotel with exceptionally thick walls. Leave it to say we took full advantage of all the privacy afforded us. You will have to use your imagination. I think it's strange...I (we) will share all about spanks but the after affects are still kinda private. LOL
I am sure Daisy will find all sorts of details I have left out. If she does, you will probably find them on her Blog. ( Yes, a shameless plug for my better half)
Now if Meow is reading this, I see that you have decided to follow my blog. I tried to check out yours but my invitation seems to have gotten lost. LOL
Hey folks, do me a little favor? Just take a quick scan of the play list up top? If I get a popularity vote, I will knock it down to a fit size. I do realize that it is a bit long at the moment.
I hope this doesn't get to boring but I have decided I will close entries with a shout out to my family.
Hello Daisy, Hi wild child, xoxo
Peace, Davey

Just an Update

Hi folks,
OK...The site has under gone a few changes as of late. I now have a very long play list of music that I really enjoy, I hope at least some of it suits everyone. It spans generations, although I will admit, most is older stuff.
Please be fair and listen to a bit you dont know or give a piece you have heard another chance. LOL BTW, "They might be giants" may have never gone super famous but they are fun.... And of course weird Al is always fun.
I guess Daisy was terribly offended by the color combination I changed to and decided this was a bit better. Something about the former being blinding... I liked the orange. Yes Jay, I know you detested the Orange as well. Just wait till I redecorate hers.... (evil chuckle)
The pic that is somewhere close to here was meant as to be elsewhere. Like on the side, but yet again, I am still learning.
Hermione, If you are reading this, I meant Richard Bach. not Bachman. I know of Mr. Kings alter ego. Richard Bach wrote a very different genre. But it was nice of you to comment anyway, Thank you !
Thank you to everyone who reads this. Special thanks to those who comment.
I do want to ask a question... Is it true, if I put a different entry in above this one, no one will read this?
Just curious.
Davey


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Wednesday, April 29, 2009

A QUICK SIMPLE CRY FOR HELP

Hello folks,
Daisy got the decorating started here on "Davey's place".
Only thing neither of us can figure is why Playlist wont work on this site...
I would appreciate any and all help.
Alright, this isnt much of an entry, I apologize.
Thanks,
Davey

Monday, April 27, 2009

Loose ends

Hello again friends.
I would like to take a moment to thank you kind folk that have decided ( for whatever reasons) to follow this Blog.
First and foremost, There is my lovely family... Wife Daisy and daughter Jflame. Daisy, it feels like I have known forever but have only been married to for approx 40 days. J has been my daughter since we met. Why adopt a self-proclaimed Brat? Because, secretly she is a wonderful woman. She does a lousy job keeping the secret. LOL
Thank you to the following;
Penfold
Bear
Cookie
Scarlet Minx.
Tiggs
Lady_Karen
Ronnie
Paul
About spanking.
Of course special thanks to all who have commented on my attempts to Blog.
All of you of course are becoming friends. Thank you again for that.
Penfold, I hope you dont mind but I am kinda borrowing your questions. I hope you dont mind.
Q Why is time so short when there is a spanking to do ?
A. With Daisy and I, it is because time is always short. Add to this the fact that our time is often compromised by others that we have to be "social" with.

Q Why is time so precious when spanking is involved and you never seem to have time to finish?
A For me it is because I spend so much time thinking about the precious little time I have had to spank my wife. I don't believe there ever really is a "finish". There is just a pause between this and the next.

Q Why is time so quick when together but an eternity when apart?
A Because when Daisy and I are together, we are happy. We feel like we are finally one. Even during our worst squabble, it was better to be with than without her. When we are apart, the time between heartbeats is an eternity. I live with the constant fear that I wont be able to remember her scent, the glitter of her eyes or the gentle touch of her fingers on my always aching body.

Q Why does time take so long when waiting to meet?
A Because, In the time we are apart, life loses all color. Nothing is a alive as it is when I am with her. I feel as though I am in a useless Limbo. I go through my day to day life feeling like I am constantly waiting.

Again, I apologize for using your questions... I have a sniggling idea that I should have answered them on your page. Forgive?

I have a question for any that care to answer. Do any of you know of an author named Richard Bach? He wrote several interesting books, none of which involved spanking..LOL

Does anyone else come on here with the need to just ramble? At this point in our lives, everything seems so very frustrating. All Daisy and I want is to be together. For whatever reason, the US Gov't is holding me hostage. This idea alone wouldnt bother me...You know, Captain America and all. But the longer they hold me, the colder poor Daisy's ass is getting and as every good spankee knows only a hot ass is a happy ass. LOL
As long as I am I am babbling....dseuss12@gmail.com is the email you can reach me at. I'm sure it is listed somewhere on here but (deep shame) I am technologicaly impared.
Until next time,
Davey

Why, is time so short when there’s spanking to do.........?

Why is time so precious when spanking is involved and you never seem to have the time to finish......?

Why is time so quick when your together, but seem like an eternity when your apart.......?

Why does time take soo long when you’re waiting to meet.......?

Thursday, April 23, 2009

Silly jokes but lighter

Why do we press harder on a remote control when we know the batteries are almost dead?

Why do banks charge a fee on “insufficient funds” when they already know there is not enough money?

Why does someone believe you when you say there are four billion stars; but have to check when you say the paint is still wet?

Why doesn’t Tarzan have a beard?

Why does Superman stop bullets with his chest, but ducks when you throw a revolver at him?

Why do Kamikaze pilots wear helmets?

Whose idea was it to put an “S” in the word “lisp”?

If people evolved from apes, why are there still apes?

Why is it that no matter what color bubble bath you use the bubbles are always white?

Is there ever a day that mattresses are not on sale?

Why do people constantly return to the refrigerator with hopes that something new to eat will have materialized?

Why do people keep running over a string a dozen times with their vacuum cleaner, then reach down, pick it up, examine it, then put it down to give the vacuum one more chance?

Why is it that no plastic bag will open from the end on your first try?

How do those dead bugs get into those enclosed light fixtures?

When we are in the supermarket and someone rams our ankle with a shopping cart then apologizes for doing so, why do we say, “It’s all right?” Well, it isn’t all right, so why don’t we say, “That really hurt, why don’t you watch where you’re going?”

Why is it that whenever you attempt to catch something that’s falling off the table you always manage to knock something else over?

In winter, why do we try to keep the house as warm as it was in summer when we complained about the heat?

How come you never hear father-in-law jokes?

And my favorite …

The statistics on sanity is that one out of every four persons is suffering from some sort of mental illness. Think of your three best friends—if they’re okay, then it’s you.

Alright, I know a lot of these have been around for ages but a few are different (at least to me). BTW, I'm still searching for a preferred Colour . Black is much to serious for some people...(sorry, inside joke. Maybe someone else will explain)

I am also curious if light hearted posts like this are more popular than the ones a little bit more serious. Let me know?

Remember, I am new to all this and appreciate any helpful comments.

Peace, Joy and Cosmic Tranquility,

Davey

Being Clumsy sucks...

OK, it's true.... I am a bit clumsy. I have a neurological disorder which effects my legs. After safely sending Daisy off to work, I was on my way to bed. I tripped (did I mention I am also a slob?) over my shoes. I slammed my head against the wall. DO NOT BE ALARMED. I have taken 1st Aid for 31 years now, I can handle it. I iced it, took some paracetamol (sp) and will stay awake for at least an hour. I am dizzy as all get out.

Since I have time to write instead of sleep, I thought here would be a good place.
It has occured to me that I could do a better job of introducing myself. As you know, I am Davey. Daisy's Husband. I am also a father of 2. My natural daughter who is 16 and lives in a far away state with her mother and my wild child Jflame, whom I love dearly. I served in the US army for awhile. A cook, much like a bartender, you here everyone's problems. After that, I got married (1st time) It was interesting and troubled from the start.
I worked at a state psychiatric hospital for 11 years. YES, worked there, didnt live there. LOL. It was a violent, heartbreaking job. I never knew who were the worst fakes...The pretend crazies or the pretend "caregivers".
After 11 years of that (anyone interested,email me for battle stories...LOL) I switched gears and now work with the developementally disabled. Mentally Retarded. It's not always safer but at least no one fakes Autism or retardation.
As you may have guessed, I have seen ALOT of the results of abuse. Thusly, I was a little apprehensive about the whole spanking idea. Bless Daisy, she was so patient in showing me the error of my ways. When I can seperate myself from work, I see the difference.
My father was a strong believer in physical discipline. Not spanking...But you can see where this is going, another reason I was a little reluctent.
I am basically a happy camper. My biggest prob is that I need to get home to Great Britain...Be at home with my wife. It kinda feels like I am being held prisioner in the US. The US had no prob sending me overseas to "protect" my country but now when I want to leave, I seem to be meeting more resistence than most.
I am a huge SuperHero fan, I like most any story where the good guys eventually win. I love weird Al Yankovich. Oh yes, my greatest shame is that I enjoy WWE. Professional Wrestling.
OK, that's enough about me. If you have anymore questions, Please feel free to ask.
On to something more interesting.......
My new friend Tiggs has a post of a survey with me. That woman should go into public relations, she can even make me look interesting. LOL
To all concerned, Daisy has promised to invade my blog and make it more interesting...Prettier or whatever. LOL
I would be remiss if I didnt take a moment to send my regards to my Blog family.
DAISY, I love you now and forever.
JFlame, You will always and forever be my daughter.. I love you too.
Thanks for your patience people. Anyone that made it this far, I hope you can now sleep.
Peace,
Davey

Monday, April 20, 2009

Did you know?? Spanks don't solve everything

Hello folks,
Spanks don't solve everything. Especially when the spanker is wrong. Tonight, Daisy and I had words over something as silly as a tv show and her request that I watch some youtube clips. Before going any farther let me explain something important. Daisy asks remarkably little of me. Other than getting my ass home to her, she asks for almost nothing. I just hate shows like American Idol and Britain's got talent.
You would think that I (being fairly intelligent) would realise her request was more than reasonable. She watched several hours of Pro-wrestling during our last visit. I guess I was tired or stubborn, wasn't going to be pressed into watching something I had no interest in. We "had words" wasn't really an arguement but she was obviously upset. She went off to work, me off to bed. I tried to sleep but it's difficult when your inner voice is screaming "ASSHOLE" I have written an apology but it seems lacking.
How I could be so dense as to complain about a couple of video's. 10 minutes in total. great reasons at the moment,in hindsight I am stupid.
Basically this entry is a public apology to my beautiful wife.
When someone treats you better than you have ever known in your life, sometimes it's easy to go to far.
I don't want to come off sounding like a wimp, I will continue to deal with daisy's behaviour issues but it isn't right for my bad behaviours to go unchecked.

I AM SORRY DAISY.
Peace people,
Davey

Thursday, April 16, 2009

Alright Folks, I am not good with gratitude lists but they seem fairly common. Mine will of course be a little different.
Today's special word is Daisychain

D. Dearest,darling,daring. All words that describe my angel. Deserving of every spank delivered.

A. angel (at times) aphrodisiac all the time. Alive, how I feel whenever I am with her.

I. Intelligent. indignant, when OTK. Ideas, she has loads of them. Idiot, that's me when I once thought to break up with her.

S. Sexy,silly,serious,sad (at our times apart), Surprised by the simplest acts of kindness. Surprising with the way she loves me. SLAP, the sound my hand makes when meeting her backside.

Y. YUMMY. young at heart. Yes, every hubbies favorite word.

C. Charming, she met my ex and daughter, they both think she is great. Challenging, never know quite when I will have to change tactics to deal with her new plans...LOL Chagrined, that look when she knows her spanking was deserved.

H. Helpful,hard willed(working on that.) Horny (sorry Daisy, had to do it) Hanky Panky, always more fun with my wife. HOT, need I say more?

A. Adorable, active, aardvark (doesn't fit but I love the word) Artistic. Addictive, can't get enough of her.

I. Independent, repeat letters make it harder...LOL Intense, a lovely thing

N. Nocturnal, things are always better after dark. NICE. in all honesty, she is the nicest woman I have ever known. Nasty, only when provoked. Never ending, my love for Daisy.

Alright, I said I wasn't good at these. If you read all the way through, thanks.
Davey

Tuesday, April 14, 2009

A serious spank

Hello folks,
This is the story of the first punishment spank after our wedding. Shortly after this heading, our stories will differ, combine and divide, you will find a happy medium. LOL
We were trying to get something accomplished about my eventual arrival in England. The land of my beautiful wife.
I called a local lawyer , seeking advice. He told me of a local Post Office with a passport department. We were advised to go there and get things situated. Silly us, we again had faith in the system. Due to legal reasons, I can only tell you that we were in an area where IQ points fall like rain.
We went to the office and the clod behind the desk claimed that my birth certificate was invalid. That it was just a note saying I had a birth certificate somewhere. Daisy and I kinda crossed wires there and we ended up leaving, making no progress.
I was already angry and frustrated. Then my beautiful wife made a major mistake. She believed the fatass Postal worker. The ride home was very harsh. Daisy was accusing me of things that really hurt. Supposedly I came 100's of miles to marry her with no intent of being with her. I tried several times to talk sense to her. Finally we arrived at home. Thank God we were alone for a bit.
I will admit, I was beside myself with anger. I was not my nicest self. I demanded that Daisy sit down, shut up and read. I handed her my Birth Certificate and made her read every word. When she finished reading, I asked if she understood her error. She said yes, I said good... now stand up.
Daisy, you are to stand in the corner and drop your slacks to your ankles. Hold the handles of the exercycle and think about the mistake you made not trusting me. I started talking to her as I searched for the proper implement. She was not really willing to stay in place, still feeling anger and resentment towards me.
Finally I found our back scratcher. Daisy, you will not doubt me again. I proceded to give her about a dozen hard stings with the scratcher. Telling her that I loved her but would not tolerate this behaviour. She suprised me. Never in all our spank life has she so totally ignored me. After the 12 stings she turned to me and collapsed in my arms. I will admit that I was at a loss for what to do next. I have never known Daisy to sob like that. She was apologising and crying, soaking my shirt with tears faster than I could imagine. I guess most would say I should have continued the spank but I couldnt. I held my girl and loved her with all my heart.
Daisy and I will always have explosions but I swear with all my heart, she is my only love.
This is a very true account, no matter how it differs. LOL

Monday, April 13, 2009

DAVEYS MEME!!!!!!!

Yes, you read it right! Davey (yup, the Davey who HATES memes) has decided to write his own meme, which he states will not just be full of odd irrelevant questions, but will have questions of a thought provoking nature!

1) This has nothing to do with favorite/hated implements, but more of effectiveness....
What implements are the most effective at delivering A) an erotic spanking?
1B) a fun spanking?
1C) a discipline/punishment spanking?

2A) Have you ever received a spank you thought was undeserved?
2B) Explain!
2C)How did you resolve the situation?

3A) Does sex after a discipline spank lessen the effectiveness of the lesson?
3B) How / Why?
3C) What percentage of spanking sessions lead to sex?

4A) At what age did you first realise you had an interest in consensual spanking?
4B) How long after this was it before you experienced your first consensual spanking?

5A) What was the most poignant spanking you ever had, the one that confirmed to you that this was what you needed/wanted in your life?
5B) Have you ever received a spanking that made you consider stopping this lifestyle choice?

6A) Do you think a romantic involvement with your spanker adds a different perspective to the spankings you receive?
6B) If so, how?

7A) Who would you least like to discover your lifestyle choice?
7B) Is there anyone you would quite like to (secretly?) discover your spanking lifestyle, even if not participate in it?

8A) Does anyone know where I can get ahold of 27 midgets?
8B) And a large human cannonball?
8C) And a huge quantity of lime flavored jello?

Origan Story

I suppose I should do better than that first paragraph.

I am here in this space for 1 primary reason, Daisy. She and I met on line long before she started her award winning blog. Our relationship has been well documented on her blog. I decided to start my own after a little encouragement from folks I haven't even met. My Blog will be primarily an addition to my wife's. A few factual adjustments and a slightly different opinion. LOL
As I have mentioned, any ideas for this Blog are welcome. I answer questions and really enjoy getting to know people. Many of you that follow Daisy's blog seem very friendly and encouraging. I hope that will carry over to here.
A bit more about me.
My experience with spanking is limited to what Daisy and I have experienced and talked about. Again, that has all been well documented elsewhere. I will say again that I was very nervous to start. Due to my upbringing, I thought of spanking as very close to abuse. I have since learned that done correctly, it is anything but.
I want to thank all of you for helping me along this trail of education. Of course, Daisy is my ultimate student/teacher. She is also my soulmate. I do have to thank Bonnie for her blog and all I learned there. I also want to thank my "daughter" Jflame for her input , strange as it can be. LOL
Unlike my dearly beloved, I wont be posting gratitude lists, at least not weekly, nor jokes or recipes. These are all wonderful things but I do not have the time or inclination to promise weekly installments of anything...
More probable is my ranting about work or giving alternate accounts to what happens in Daisy land...LOL And for the last time...I also look forward to any and all ideas to help this blog along. In the past, I have started a couple of things like this which died miserably. I would like to keep this up and running.
That's all for now.
Peace,
Davey

Beginning

Hello folks,
Due to requests by very strange folks (LOL) I am going to start a Blog myself. do not expect much but I could use ideas.
I'm really much more comfortable guesting on Daisy's blog.
Talk soon
Davey