spanking prep

Alright, I know...very recently I wrote about how very smart my Daisy is...This is a tale of her not being as smart as usual.

While we were on our recent vacation, she brought up the fact that I had forgotten a lot of the reasons she had earned spankings while we were apart. I had joked about keeping a notebook with daily entries of her "earnings". She had the audacity to say I really should keep one. She acted put out by my trying to just give blanket forgiveness.

Well, I took her advice and when I got home, I bought a notebook. After being apart only a short while, I read to her what she has earned so far. NOW all of a sudden a notebook is a bad idea.

"No Davey, you shouldn't keep one, to much of a bother" LOL

I have decided to let you all in on the contents of our notebook so far. I only list reasons, not actual earned spanks...They will be decided later...

1/11 (first entry) Daisy making jokes about being "out of reach". Teasing is not a great idea

1/12 Not listening as I tried to explain my motel stay

(Long space because of private issues)

1/22 pushing the "intentionally difficult" rules. Name calling, insults. Good natured but still...

1/23Arguing about audible swats, (swats delivered over the phone)

....Getting Crazed and acting like its America's (or my) fault that recipe conversions are difficult.

1/24 Not listening to me, having to repeat myself several times. If she had listened instead of argued, the conversation would have been easier.

1/25 GOOD GIRL SPANK, Daisy remembered her meds without reminder, behaved, stopped being sarky with 1 warning.

1/26 no spank

1/27 Reality check spanking. To remind her that "Daisy's world" is not always the same as reality

I can only imagine what the list will look like by the time we see each other again. I am thinking I need to get some arm exercises started.

So, I have a question, does anyone else think keeping a notebook is a good idea? Please let me know.

Love you Daisy

Peace,

Davey

A strange thought

Yes, I have again managed to attain Internet access !!!

I was going to write another entry about Daisy not learning some lesson or another and the resulting spank, then a scary thought came to me. Any other Spanker's ever wonder what in the world we would do if our spankee's really did learn all our "lesson's" ? If Daisy suddenly stopped bratting, smiled sweetly and was never Sarky...I'd be lost. Yes, I know about "Good Girl spanks" and they are nice in their place. However, I freely admit to using Daisy's behaviour as an excuse to put her over my knee. Sometimes it's a learning process , far and away, not her favorite position. Can't hardly picture it as part of a GGS.

Lucky for me, I also discovered something. I know my Daisy is a very intelligent woman. I have seen her learn her way around a foreign country. I have seen her behaviour become impeccable (when needed). My discovery is that my beautiful wife has secretly learned her lessons. The reasons for bad behaviour? I can think of two. One is simple forgetfulness, happens to everyone on occasion. The second is much more important. I think questionable behaviour is sometimes because she REALLY loves me. I "hear" the collective "WHAT"??? Let me explain. A disciplinary spank does more than correct faulty behaviour. It can also remind us of our places in this relationship. When a man and wife see each other so rarely, sometimes the line blurs. I admit to Letting things slide a bit far before reacting, after being apart for so long, I try to handle things in a quiet, loving Verbal fashion... Not understanding why she is being so intentionally difficult. Then it clicks..MY Girl needs a good swift (or not so swift) spanking. I again remember that I am in charge and shouldn't, Can't tolerate it. I wondered in the past, why a hard spanking brought about such a loving and grateful reaction. It has been mentioned here and on Daisy's Blog that I am not always the sharpest pencil in the box. Thank Goodness I have Daisy to remind me.

So, at the end of the day I am grateful for my clever, quick witted and smart ass Wife.

I hope all is well with everyone. I love you Daisy

Peace

Davey

reality sucks

As with a lot of guys, it is easier for me to joke or make light of situations that in reality make me want to cry. This post was originally to be a joke about the porcelain bottom mentioned by Daisy. Something about how much truth there is to it. No lie,an hour of serious spanking is undone in 10 minutes.

That is the lighter side.

The reality is that we are again alone. Amazing how fast one can forget how to sleep alone. Get used to someone making morning coffee and ignoring me forgetting to shave. We had a glorious couple weeks together that went by in the blink of an eye. In truth, we had "words" on more than one occasion, spats that would probably not happen if we actually lived like "normal" married folks. You know, together. Instead, we get a couple of weeks when possible. For the first time, we were together twice in one year.

I am working hard to get things fixed for my passport and eventually my VISA. Unfortunately my physical condition is in decline, making a visa all the more difficult.

I love my Daisy. I love the ways she tries to keep me on my toes. To read my (rare) posts, you'd think she was an insufferable brat. I am here to say, that is not so. I have been well and truly blessed to have such a wonderful wife. She has a few misunderstandings as to who is in charge but that is to be expected when we are usually 1000's of miles apart. Also, I will admit I might have a couple of habits she finds intolerable. =}

I don't know when I will be able to post again, until then

Peace,

Davey

Greetings and Salutations
After a very long absence I am proud to make temporary return. Currently I am on vacation in the beautiful warm weather with my Beautiful Daisy. It's been a strange trip so far, 1st half spent with family that is unaware of our spanking ways. We always enjoy a challenge.
All who know Daisy and I know that our time together is very limited. Vacation time is very precious. Several months ago we spent a couple of weeks together. My Sweetheart went home and casually remarked that her bottom hardly noticed any spanks... The distance between our homes made it impossible to remedy this until now. So without going completely nuts I am doing my best to make sure the same will not be said again this time.
Being a romantic, loving and gentle type, spanks are not always my 1st thought. To help me with this problem, darling Daisy has brought a heaping helping of spankable behaviours...I am such a lucky guy.=)
Today we are working on appreciation/maintenance spanks...100 every 1/2 hr or so. I will let her explain the benefits of such a plan.
I hope everyone is well, I have missed you all.
Peace,
Davey